Whenever I go on a trip away from home I do try my best (honestly I do) to leave a clean house. I remember there was a time not so long ago whenever I was off to parts unknown the husband was there, then he took care of all the domestic stuff. However, with his current traveling schedule lately I am relying on a babysitter to pick up after our three two-legged responsibilities and run the necessary errands.
Before I leave I usually have a plethora of things which have to be done before I can say those wonderful four words, “I’m ready to go”. This is my check off list, but you may find additional items to add which suit your living situation.
Must Do Things Moms Do Before Going on Vacation
Completely clean my house. I’m not going to even lie, this is probably one of the few times of the year that my house gets thoroughly cleaned from top to bottom. Plus, its only fair to leave a clean house for the babysitter.
Complete all the laundry. Again, this is one of the few times per year that all of my laundry is completed and I have an empty basket. AND not only all clean laundry, but I put it up and fold the socks. Again these are all RARE things that happen around here. Hmm, maybe I should go on vacation more often?
Email Teachers and notify the school. I feel this is important, even though the kids will not miss any school, to let the school and teachers know I will be out of town. In the past, my kid’s behavior would change when I was gone. Letting their teachers know this ahead of time helped keep my boys in line. In addition, notifying the school that a different person would be picking up my children is ALWAYS important. That’s the last thing one should worry about 3000 miles away. I also like to let the teachers know my plans, so if they see work is missing, a missing violin, no snow pants, etc. they will understand.
Make a list for the sitter. When I leave my house and entrust our children into the hands of someone else,I want to make sure they have everything they need. I will usually sit down and make a list of things like:
- Put the garbage out on garbage day,
- Bring the mail in,
- Give out medicine and vitamins first thing in the morning,
- Pack Lunches
- What the boys can and can’t have
- Feed the dog
- Make sure homework gets completed
- Video games and TV schedule, etc.
- Be sure to give out the rounds of Melatonin an hour before bedtime
Leaving a schedule and going over it with both the babysitter and the children is a great way to make sure everyone is on the same page, and to let everyone know what the expectations are when mom is away.
Leave an Emergency list and copy of Insurance cards. While we don’t want to think about the WORST happening while on vacation or on a work trip, it’s definitely a must-do item on every checklist. Always leave contact information of nearby family members and friends that are my back-up people just in case the sitter needs them. I also leave a copy of the insurance cards just in case. Fingers crossed those items are never needed. I also leave information about my flight and make sure my husband has the information about my flight itinerary as well.
Food. Yes, it’s important to leave a well-stocked pantry if you’re going to be away. I want to make the babysitter’s job is as easy as possible. I mean, she is watching MY three boys for 7 days. So, I will go grocery shopping one or two days before the trip. On this grocery trip, even with using coupons and sales I always overspend. I usually overspend because I buy frozen food items, quick dinner meals, frozen pizzas, foods I would normally prepare myself. But when I rely on a sitter, even though she will cook some of their meals, I want to leave her some easy options.
Cook meals in advance– I will usually prepare a few meals in advance. Freezer Friendly meals are the best option when you’re gone. This allows for your children to continue to have home-cooked meals and less work for the babysitter. I didn’t have time to prepare a lot of freezer friendly meals this time around, but I did prepare a hot chicken casserole that the boys absolutely LOVE. I made a big batch of it so it will last about three days. Another meal I made in advance was baked spaghetti. If you need some more freezer friendly meal ideas, I have quite a few posted HERE.
Leave money. It’s always a good idea to leave a little money, especially if you’re going to be gone for over a week. I left some play money for the sitter to use to take the boys to the movies or order out for pizza. The boys also have their own allowance money to use if they want to stop by Speedway for Slushies or pick up their own snacks.
Leave little notes around the house. If you have time to do this, leave your kids little notes and reminders around the house and in their backpacks. This is like having your nagging voice there to remind them to put their clothes in the dirty laundry, don’t forget the violin, remember to turn in your library books, etc. I also like to leave notes that says, “Mom loves you!”or “Be good for the babysitter”.
Well, that’s my list and I’m sticking to it! What are some things that you do before you leave on vacation or work trip? Regardless if you’re going away for a whole week or just a night, leaving a list of the must-do things is important!
Leave me a comment below on some of the things you would leave on your checkoff list below!
Robin (Masshole Mommy) says
I would never go on a vacation without my kids, but I love all the rest of your tips.
becca says
I love your tips they work even if I never leave my son when I go on vacation. Then again son and I have gone without dad so these would work for him.
Jessica Harlow says
These are great tips! I am a big believer in getting the house in tip top shape before we leave. The last thing I want to do is come back to a disaster at home after a great vacation!
Pam says
I always clean my house before going on vacation. There’s nothing like coming home to a clean house.
Dogvills says
This is a handy checklist. It is important to throw the garbage so house won’t smell when we get back
Cathy says
I don’t go on vacation without my family, but when I travel alone for work I leave lots of notes throughout the house as friendly/helpful reminders for my husband.
Melissa Vera says
There is nothing better than coming home from vacation to a clean house. I love that feeling, now just to go on vacation.
AJ @ NutriFitMama says
I always clean my house before going out of town also- I feel good coming home to a clean house 🙂
Rosey says
I won’t leave before the house is deep cleaned either. Which might be silly since it accumulates dust and has to be deep cleaned again anyway, but… so be it. :)r
Lois Alter Mark says
When moms go out of town, they practically need a vacation from the planning needed to do before they leave. When dads go out of town, they just go!
lisa says
I have never gone on vacation without my kids. Maybe one day….lol.
Lexie Lane says
Yup! This is a great list! I’m printing this out to make sure I can make a checklist for each of these! Lol!
Debbie Denny says
These are fantastic. Going over the rules with everyone is great
Tracie says
I do the house cleaning thing. It is SO nice to come home to a clean house – even though I immediately mess it up by brining in my suitcases full of dirty laundry. Unless I was visiting my mom….because even though I’m 32 years old, she still does all my laundry for me before I go home so I just have to unpack straight into my drawers. She is awesome.
Kristin says
YES! Coming home to a clean house after a vacay is the best!
Pamela :: Still Dating My Spouse says
Trying to get the house ready for us to leave for vacation is always harder than me packing for the vacation. Thanks for these tips
Kiwi says
I am not a mother yet but this is a great list for all moms out there. Moms need a vacay too – moms are legit superheros so definitely this list would come in handy for leaving!
The Educational Tourist says
I thought this was an article about the things moms need to do before a family vacation. The list is always long! I’m a big believer in taking the kids – it is great bonding time and it shows them the world.
Those casseroles could go in the freezer for when you get back. Between the laundry and jet-lag, who wants to cook when they get home from vacation??
Natalie, The Educational Tourist
http://www.theeducationaltourist.com
D. Durand Worthey says
No doubt. Traveling with kids is great too. However, Moms travel for works, girl getaways, couple vacations, etc. And whenever that happens, there’s always a ton of things to do. Love the tip on putting an extra casserole in the freezer. You’re right.. no one wants to cook when they get back! Thanks for stopping by!